The Plus-Size Guide to Effortless Mixing and Matching

Dresses are wonderful because they’re a complete outfit in one go – no fuss, no matching required. But what if I told you that mixing and matching separates can be just as easy, especially with a few simple formulas? It’s time to unlock the fun of building versatile outfits!

The “Sandwich” Formula

This straightforward method helps you create cohesive, stylish looks with ease.

Start with a Top: Put on your chosen top.
Add Contrasting Bottoms: Select bottoms that don’t directly match the top. Think complementary or contrasting colors – not clashing ones. You’ll know if colors clash by simply looking in the mirror; if it feels “off,” it probably is. You can even mix vibes, like a more formal top with casual jeans.
Match Shoes to Top: Your shoes should either match your top in color or in “vibe.” So, if you’re wearing a dressy top with jeans, opt for dressier shoes. If your top is casual, your shoes should be too. This creates the “sandwich” effect, where your top and shoes frame your outfit. Don’t be afraid to experiment with bold, fun shoe colors beyond basic black, brown, or navy!
Incorporate a Layer: Add an extra element like a jacket, a scarf, or a vest to complete the look.
Coordinate Your Bag: Your purse should match any part of your outfit, either in color or vibe. For instance, if your outfit mixes gray and pink, your bag can be gray or pink. If you’re blending casual and dressy, your bag can lean either way.
Accessorize Freely: Now’s your chance to add jewelry, glasses, or other accessories to express your personal style.

The “Suit” Approach

This is a common and effective way to start mixing separates, especially if you’re new to combining different pieces.

Matching Bottoms and Jacket: The core idea is to pair bottoms with a matching jacket, creating a cohesive base.
Contrasting Top: Introduce a top in a contrasting color or print to liven up the ensemble. A solid jacket over a printed top can subtly tone down the print.
Trust Your Instincts: When combining colors, rely on your intuition. If a pairing doesn’t feel right, it likely isn’t.
Neutral or Matching Accessories: Your shoes and bag should either be neutral tones or match one of the colors in your outfit.

The Power of the Jacket

Sometimes, your outer layer deserves all the attention. This strategy lets a fabulous jacket truly shine.

Jacket as the Star: Allow your bold jacket to be the focal point of your outfit.
Subtle Base: Your top and bottoms should match each other, acting as a subtle backdrop that doesn’t compete with the jacket.
Minimal Accessories: Keep your purse and other accessories understated so they don’t fight for attention with your statement jacket.

This approach is particularly fantastic for special occasions. Instead of buying a new dress or a whole new outfit for every event, you can wear a classic base (like a black dress or separates) and transform the entire look with an incredible statement jacket. No one will notice you’re wearing the same base because all eyes will be on that fabulous top layer!

You’ve Got This!

Have fun putting together your outfits! For plus-size individuals, clothing can sometimes feel like a challenging topic, with outdated advice often suggesting we try to “look smaller” or “fade into the background.” (We can definitely ignore that!) Mixing colors and prints might feel a little intimidating or like you’re breaking rules at first. But try it anyway! Once you get the hang of it, you might just discover a whole new joy in dressing.